Loving and Lasting

It seems that when I write about relationships that I often get questions about sex. And then when I write about sex people want to know how they can keep their relationship long lasting and happy.” Well I hope this post has a little bit of both.

Sex is an important part of a long-term loving relationship. Unfortunately too few places exist where adults can get real information about good, healthy sex. And it sure is true that sex ed in schools doesn’t give any information about how to have good sex.

On the other hand getting all your information from articles in Cosmopolitan or looking at on line porn isn’t any better. That’s why I’m currently writing a series of articles on sexuality. The first one is, “The Science of Premature Ejaculation.”

Do you know what the cycle of sexual intercourse is?

Are you aware that about 30% of men have a problem with Premature Ejaculation (PE) at some time during their lives?

Did you know that men with PE really do want to please their partner and try to last longer?

The usual assumption is that most men with PE are just going for their own pleasure and don’t care about a woman’s feelings and needs. In my experience in working with men who have this problem, I have found that they really want to satisfy the woman in their lives, but don’t know what to do.

In the article I review the basic science of sex and the underlying causes of PE. Just by understanding what is happening, a couple can begin to communicate about this problem and that alone is enough to start making meaningful changes.

By understanding what your partner is experiencing and vice versa, you both can have a deeper, loving and more satisfying sexual connection. In this case, the more you know, the better you do.

Hi, I am Dr. Karen Gless, PhD, MFT, RN, I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (MFC21423), and a Registered Nurse. Since 1985 I have had a successful practice as a Marriage and Family Therapist in San Diego, CA.. My focus is on brief therapy whenever possible. The basic values I follow in my therapy are being: Warm, Caring, and Effective Specialities: Relationship counseling Sexual problems Effective communication for couples Intimacy issues Lack of Sexual Desire Orgasmic Difficulties Sex Addiction Incest/Abuse Survivors Impotence Premature Ejaculation Depression therapy Anxiety therapy Stress therapy Services: Couples Therapy Marital Therapy Individual Therapy EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) Sex Therapy Hypnotherapy EFT As a marriage counselor in San Diego, I strive to help couples understand their relationship more deeply and fashion the tools they need to create healthy, happy, fulfilling relationships Happy couples feel fulfilled in their lives together. They say they experience intimacy, love and mutual sexual fulfillment and satisfaction. Because I see relationships as a natural crucible for growth, transformation and creativity, I have helped many couples understand their relationship in marriage counseling in new ways so that they can resolve their conflicts and grow together. If you are looking for a professional relationship therapist or sex therapist in San Diego, Ca., get in touch with me and I will be happy to help. History Established in 1985. Dr.Gless, Ph.D. has been in private practice as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 1985. For marriage counseling she with her husband developed Couples Emotional Process Therapy (CEPT) a relationship counseling system that combines the best in scientific research with practical experience. In counseling couples and helping them explore the potential of their relationship, Dr. Gless has worked to gain insights and fashion tools to help couples create a healthy, happy, fulfilling relationship. She uses trance work as a special way of unlocking individual and shared creativity. She has written many articles on counseling relationships, appeared on TV shows, given TV, radio and internet interviews and has even been quoted in Cosmopolitan Magazine.

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